Bloggers feature: Why girls tell you they are dating when they are not

(From Being Timbyen)

Guys, get in here! You know that gut feeling that tells you a babe you are "liking" is lying about dating someone else? That feeling might just be true, and from a girl who may or may not have told this lie....well

Here are a few reasons girls lie to you that they are dating when they are not.


 1. They just don't like you
 To some ladies it is just a polite way of telling you they aren't interested in you, so just backoff! No they don't have time for your flirtations and forced conversations. When she likes you she would reach you without any coercion from you sir.

 2. She respects your feelings
 She has told you NO, but you keep insisting,  even when she tells you she is not in a relationship but just isn't interested,  so she lies cos you have refused to take no for an answer and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or ego. And basically cos she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend (friend zone got you good).

Lol....this meme cracks me up, but I don't completely agree

3. She might think you have ulterior motives 
 This might not be necessarily true or accurate,  but somehow some ladies think that when your first approach to telling her you like her is firstly asking her "do you have a boyfriend?", she would think what you want from her is just some sort of fling that would be hindered by the fact she has a boyfriend.

 4. Using you to catch trips
 Some might tell you they are dating someone else just for the fun of the chase, to see how interested you are. Pray not to come across this bunch, just plain mean, but don't assume all ladies do this.   

Basically dude, most of the time its cos she wants nothing to do with you.
-she just wants you to keep off
-not call or text her over and over  
-she wants you to understand that the heart wants what it wants and at the moment it don't want you.
-she wants you to stop coming on too strong...(match break small). Easy does it.
-give her space
-respect her 'imaginary ' boyfriend.

But being a man isn't easy, really,  hats off to those who get turned down and still have morale to toast again, most women would never understand ...it really is not easy, having to state your feelings only to find out it's not mutual.


However when next you think she is lying about seeing someone else, the above reasons might just be one of many other possible reasons why she lied.

Be strong guys....you would find your missing rib, she would form small, but it is you that has her "juju" it must catch her.....but please know when you aren't wanted.

P.S: Someone might want to ask if I am dating anyone, YES O! I AM!
❤TAD   


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